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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2023 1:44:38 GMT
Against Lust
we can see examples of heartfelt prayers in the thief on the cross, and the prodigal son, and also the publican saying "God have mercy on me a sinner, while not even looking to heaven and beating his breast'. This will be a humbling mourning over sins like it says in James. This is something I think real Christians do not for a show or for they have to, but when they sin, they do it, because there is no other way to do it. The godly sorry leads to repentance.
I need to pray through the day I need to ask God into every situation as if He is right there.
No more lust No more arousals NO more emotional lust affairs No more hidden agendas
all dying to the self found in Romans 6, 'consider the old man dead'
When we humbly, seek God, we feel sick, lost and broken and only hope for God to love and accept us, then actually believing He has heard us and be willing to run with that truth and with God, into more more days of fellowship.
We don't need to simply stop the lust, We need a new God, I am talking about we need Jesus Christ for real, no joke, no more sin, and make the decision to give our all to him, and daily make decisions to actively follow him, taking all thoughts captive into the submission of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Satan is all out to kill us and deceive us, making us think we are strong (which is not true, if we are just men, but we are strong WITH GOD). We are weak this makes us rely on the Lord for strength.
I cry, sleep, I get depressed and down on myself.
Satan is also trying to keep me down and not let me experience God's love and forgiveness but I have chosen to rely on Romans 8:1 "There is now no more condemnation for those who belong to Jesus Christ"
I need to tell myself and believe and stand on that truth.
"Dominic, God says you are not condemned" "Dominic, God says "where are your accusers, neither do I condemn you" "Dominic, God says "Today, you will be with me in paradise"
We need to come to our senses like the prodigal and just simply humbly confess "I have sinned against God and not worthy to be called his son" and forsake our sins (Proverbs 28:13).
I am not going to treat that women as my god I am not going to worship the demon of lust I am not going to worship my body parts I am not going to worship her/his body parts I am not going to listen to lie anymore I am going to live on "every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God"
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2023 3:01:38 GMT
Thanks for the encouragement and feed back. My mind wants to think thinks that God would not allow for a Christian, Married Man, to think. I'm attracted to my wife and we have a blessed marriage. I'm not talking only about intimacy but also I lover her very much and I don't want to hurt her. Satan puts "forbidden thoughts/desires" in order to give me, that is, my sinful, self-gratifying, flesh.
For example,
1. Hey Dom, your wife is mad, find another 2. Hey Dom, your wife is not helping you, do this instead,it's not bad, it's natural, all guys do it, plus, you need help
Stop!
Why would I promise my wife to be with her mind and body, but then change my mind (break my promise) to be unfaithful to my God and unfaithful to my wife by seeking another companion for my emotional support and sexual intimacy?
Simply because I'm aroused? Simply because I "feel" lonly?
Arousals are caused by thoughts, and not all thoughts are good, and safe. For example, a man to think of another women, not his wife, as if to use her body and not give her his body and mind, completely, but only in a fantasy, as if to please selfish arousal gratification, therefore making women into "things" and my body into "something I submit to and obey" as if I am the servant to my own god/me? No way. That will not work.
My wife wants me to be ONLY thinking of her and NOT ONLY while we are intimate. THAT is God's design for my marriage. I also do not want my wife to be with me physically while her heart and mind are mentally desiring other men, so it works both ways.
This is marital faithfulness This is being pure in God's eyes.
In God's eyes is the key. NOT man's eyes. Man's eyes are ever satisfied and forever trying to fill a lust void will every single women on the planet for hookups in their mind that will NEVER FULFILL and NEVER be true. That is not a trap and laws but "the truth shall set you free"
We are free to live in righteouness We are free FROM evil ways
or
We are free to live in UNrighteouness and We are free FROM righteous ways
You have to choose which God, which laws, which authority you will bow and serve.
I know what I have chosen.
I choose God's plan for my life and marriage, not anything less.
Any wife would want her husband to be ONLY interested in her ANY and I think ALL, Yes, ALL people want faithfulness and with God ALL things are possible, but if you choose a life to remove God out of the picture, then you are making your choice to do it on your own, and we are left to our own consequences, of shame, lonliness, using others for s-x and self-gratification, letting our minds run wild thinking of all and any others that would please us, then we need more and more harder substances (drugs) to please us and we end up dying in overdose, or death eventually, while our brains and hearts grow sick and more and more corrupt,
THAT is bondange THAT is slavery
Those who seek to be free from God's laws are in effect making the choice to be set up, their own laws, therefore becoming a slave to another master (aka self). I'm not gonna serve myself, I already tried that and it only leads to despair and it's nuts, it makes me crazy, depressed, hateful, pride, arrogant, self-righteousness
Only when I die to my selfish ways, by accepting that Jesus Christ has died on the cross for my sins, and is FOR the SINNER, that means FOR ME and YOU and EVERYONE, then I can realize that is God's punishment and view on sins. God HATES SIN, look at what it does to us? Sin kills marriages, broken families, children suffer.
Sin makes us believe a lie.
that is
lie 1 = do what you want if it feels good truth 1 = can I walk to you and slap your face, I feel good, why not let me? reality 1 = do you see how lie 1 is stupid
lie 2 = I'm my own master truth 2 = you are not a master of anything, but a servant to the self/evil/satan or God, to Jesus, His ways reality = we are all religeous and have a boss/ authory we trust, despite our faith or lack thereof
The big question - how to love myself? The big answer - God demonstrate His Own love for us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us" Romans 5:8
wait, what? so if God died for me, and said "man women, I do not condemn you, go an sin no more"
I have to realize THAT is the very heart of God.
God doesn't condemn you, He is the one who wants to free you and I from the law of sin and death and give you life and freedom IN RIGHTEOUSNESS and holiness
Look at how Jesus look at women. Look at how Jesus looked at little children Look at how Jesus looked at men
THAT is how God wants to look in you and through you to them, looking at them, through you.
WILL YOU LET HIM?
If not, if I say "no",
I am saying "in effect" this
"God, I think you too harsh, and I am just a man, I was tempted or something"
You know what?
God can say "Oh do you thought I was too harsh, why then didn't you seek me for refuge?"
Why?
Let's examine,
"God your mean"
soooo....what...??
soo...what about the cross? Is that God's meanness? Is that mean?
No, I'm talking about this..
No, I'm talking about this cross now....
There is hope and freedom right in front of our eyes, IF you really want it.
How bad to you want it?
I want it soooooo bad, I'm talking about freedom, purity, in Jesus, and found in no other.
My heart is compassionate for the people caught in this despair, because I can understand what they are going through. A real mental prison, a mental prison, that Satans to enslave you and I in,
NO WAY!!!
Get out of here Satan in the name of Jesus, Get thee behind me you liar, for it is written, "Love the Lord your God and love your neighbor as yourself", for it is written "Husbands love your wife" for it is written, "Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only"
You and I are not the enemy, lucifer is and all his lying angels and false lying wonders, trying to enslave you and I, because he knows his time is short and he will be sent to the lake of fire, Jesus said that hell was created for Satan and his angels (HINT HINT: not you, not created for you, so why listen to a liar who wants you to join him there, why let him mislead you to doubt and deny the Lord God, for a forbidden fruit, is IT really worth it? Is orgasm, and flesh worth paying for, is lust gonna make me love my wife better, and other female co-workers and sisters in Christ and all women, even the women and men in adult industry? No. lust will not, lust will say "take it, do it, feel it" while you do, we die and went sent ourselves to hell now and after.
Forget that junk
Lust is NOT worthy it.
death to lust resist and rebel against wickedness hate evil
away with it all.
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